The Price of Having Been Loved Deeply

There is a certain kind of silence that arrives before grief.It comes when someone you love is still here,but no longer strong. It sits beside you like a room after someone has just left,nothing’s moving,but the air hasn’t forgotten them yet. My granny is very weak now.Her body has begun to move at a different […]
Pain is personal

Last midnight, I took my granny to the emergency room. By this morning, she was admitted. Staying up all night is something most people can relate to. We’ve all done it for exams, work, deadlines, or life pressure. I used to think exhaustion was the hardest part of those nights… But this night was different. […]
Happy New Year.

It’s a new year,but I think I’ve lived long enough that it doesn’t feel that different anymore. I used to celebrate it properly waiting for the countdown,watching fireworks,chatting with friends about New Year’s resolutions,pretending that midnight could magically reset everything. This year, though,January 1st feels like just another day. another morning. another breath. And somehow, […]
WordPress Shows “Briefly Unavailable for Scheduled Maintenance”: What Have I Done?

“Briefly unavailable for scheduled maintenance. Check back in a minute.” If you’ve been running WordPress sites long enough, you’ve probably seen this message before.It’s not an error. It’s normal WordPress behavior during plugin or core updates. What feels scary is not the message itself, it’s when that “minute” turns into 15… 20… or 30 minutes. […]
I canceled the 10km

I was supposed to run 10 kilometers this Sunday. Last weekend, I asked ChatGPT to help me build a plan.I followed most of it.Not perfectly, but enough to feel proud. Until my body started whispering. At first, it was small.A heavy throat.A tired walk that felt heavier than it should. I ignored it. Because I […]